Barbara Patricia Totaro, age 80, entered into rest on April 11, 2014 in Turlock, CA.  She was born on March 16, 1934 in Oakland, CA to the late Abel and Isabel Gonsalves. Barbara was also preceded in death by her husband, Richard Totaro, her son, Paul Gerard Totaro, and 2 brothers.
Barbara was a resident of Patterson for 23 years and previously of Hayward.
Barbara is survived by her children, Cecilia Vierra (Jeff) of Lathrop, Salette Bailey (Matt) of Auburn, Christopher Totaro (Jennifer) of Greenville, NH and Bernadette Finch of Lafayette.  She was blessed with 14 grandchildren and 4 great grandchildren, as well as her long partner Tom Ross of Patterson. Barbara also leaves behind 1 brother and 1 sister.
Barbara loved spending time with her family.  She enjoyed dancing, collecting Barbie dolls, her cats and she loved jewelry.  
PL Fry & Son Funeral Home, 290 N. Union Road, Manteca is honored to serve the Totaro family.  A Graveside service will be held on Thursday, April 17, 2014 at 1:00pm at Golden Gate National Cemetery, 1300 Sneath Road, San Bruno.  An online guestbook is available at www.plfryandson.com.